| (NB. In this true story I did not state any person or | | | | |
| organization's name so, if anybody fined this story | | | | I am astonished, surprised and sorry to say I have |
| similar to his/their life it is a miracle. It is only my | | | | discover that at list one of the economics student of |
| personal history. It is written by my pen name.) | | | | D……? University, after completed his degree he |
| | | | | could not become a good economist, he became a |
| What is the meaning of success? I guess everybody | | | | critical selfish politician and that student (My elder |
| will call the success is the other part of achievement. | | | | brother) is a living prove. |
| What does it mean by a successful man? Who is | | | | |
| being called a successful man? …A man who can | | | | After complete M.S & PHD degree my brother |
| achieve his goal in life called a successful man. – | | | | has proved that he become an uncivilized flatterer, |
| This is the place where I have my different opinion. | | | | conspiracies. I hate this mentality, education, social |
| ……. | | | | status and all the others, now he is working recently |
| | | | | established a public university in Bangladesh that is |
| | | | | situated out of D….. ? Division, as an associate's |
| This story begun eighteen (18) years ago when I was | | | | professor, so far I know he is also the chairman of |
| 20 years dreamiest young boy. My father was a | | | | Economics department, by submitted resignation letter |
| financially sound businessman. We are four (04) | | | | on his previous Government job, although once a time |
| brothers and I'm the third (3rd). After my father, my | | | | he forced me to get in to a government job but now |
| eldest brother and I was the decision maker of all the | | | | he resigned his (1st class officer) government job. To |
| matters about our family. In every crisis we overcame | | | | earn more money for a secured life, a University |
| by discussing together. At a time my eldest brother | | | | teacher can involve in several institution so he can |
| had become dependent mentally on my steps, | | | | earn huge money here, at list more then a |
| although I was not at a mature enough. | | | | Government officer, and now he is doing this. |
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| From my early age around 15/16 years I was addicted | | | | I am so confused that what the students will learn |
| in reading novels, poems, magazine, business journals, | | | | from him, because teaching profession is a honorable |
| historical and literatures books after my class work. Still | | | | profession, a teacher should maintain a professional |
| I've continued my study on international and local | | | | ethics and honesty, but I think he has no ethics, he |
| business oriented books, journals, magazines, law, etc. I | | | | didn't know what is the meaning of responsibility - as |
| am also writing by internet about business related | | | | a son, teacher, And as a elder brother. |
| topics. Already twenty seven (27) case study and | | | | |
| more that fifteen (15) articles already been published in | | | | Still I am suffering for his conspiracy, only "ALL |
| different international journals. And hope I will write | | | | MIGHTY GOD" knows, how much opportunity I had |
| more about these. I blocked myself all the times in | | | | lost for his cruel and in-justice on my higher education, I |
| reading instead of playing games and sports. I read | | | | will hate him from the bottom of my heart till my death, |
| almost a couple of thousand books before completing | | | | for his ugly politics, selfish & cheating game, 18 |
| my Graduation. My long term vision was to become a | | | | (eighteen) years have passed but still I am keeping my |
| high scholar person through higher education (proper) | | | | dream and ambition for higher study. Above my entire |
| to establish my career and speared my knowledge to | | | | story made me confident and courage to take any |
| the society. | | | | challenge to prove myself that I could also earn PHD |
| At the age of twenty (20), when I passed the | | | | with a better result then my evil brother. And I will try |
| Bachelor degree in commerce I found myself through | | | | and try to prove that till my death. |
| a radical change because I had seen a lot of people | | | | |
| were misguided by some cunning big certificate | | | | I think PHD or higher educational certificates cannot |
| holders (the opportunity takers). A lot of people had | | | | make a good and blinded by selfishness person. By |
| become insolvent and bank craft after taking their | | | | these big certificates he can earn a lot of money and |
| advice. So, I decided to take higher study to gather | | | | lead a lavish life but the creator all mighty has created |
| actual knowledge and speared it to all for awareness | | | | a few scholar humans to serve for the people and the |
| and also open the mask of those money making | | | | society not to be a rich man. |
| cheaters. | | | | |
| | | | | Money is essential to lead a life but it is not everything. |
| In Bangladesh the education system is so back dated; | | | | There are 600 core people are in the world but one |
| a student has to learn every angle without dept | | | | Mr. Abraham Lincoln (Late President of the USA) has |
| knowledge in all subjects just to pass the exam and | | | | changed the history of mankind. He sacrificed his life |
| get a certificate to chase for a job. As a result we | | | | for the people of the country, did not want to be a rich |
| see here a Bachelor of Arts degree holder is | | | | man. And this is my ideology. I don't want to be a rich |
| becoming a banker and a commerce background | | | | guy like my brother; I want to serve myself for the |
| holder become a technician. So, shameful for us. But in | | | | society. |
| the first countries like USA, UK, EU or Australia there | | | | |
| are a lot of opportunities to earn dept knowledge | | | | Right now I am trying to gathering knowledge from |
| which is useable practically in the society. This picture | | | | everywhere around me; books, magazine, journals, |
| insist me to go abroad to get higher study. | | | | internet, library because I have got a limited financial |
| | | | | capacity, I can't buy those high prices books or the |
| After passing the Graduation in Commerce I started to | | | | other facilities to continue my study for higher |
| look for the right university to study and fortunately I | | | | education. |
| got admit in one of the university in Australia. My mom | | | | |
| and the others encouraged me to go ahead. And | | | | Then I started my career as accounts executive, from |
| when I was getting ready to go, suddenly my father | | | | where achieved a solid confidence to keep all |
| showed his anger and blocked me by not providing the | | | | accounts records and prepare all necessaries papers |
| financial support. I was so shocked that I could not eat, | | | | for annual audit report, & submitted report to |
| sleep or think about my future. Fortunately, I find out | | | | the board of directors meeting, after 06 months my |
| that the block maker is not my father, he is just been | | | | performance promoted me as the managers |
| convinced by my eldest brother. I could not believe that | | | | (Accounts & audit) where I learned how to |
| he can do such thing against me. So, a few months | | | | maintain & keep the accounts, auditing information |
| my act was like an abnormal person. Now I'm telling | | | | records in the proper way, |
| you the real fact why my brother blocked me to go | | | | |
| abroad. | | | | In the mean time I have continued my on accounts. |
| | | | | Audit, & finance, by read an implication those |
| That time my eldest brother was a college teacher, by | | | | knowledge I become one of the main decision maker |
| the side of his job he started to private teaching in our | | | | of company, |
| home. A lot of students come and go everyday made | | | | |
| our neighbors felt disturbed. But they could not | | | | I have worked various organizations in different level; |
| complain because I had a very good relationship with | | | | my resume is enclosed simply to give you some |
| the top people of my area and also I have got black | | | | information about my background and job experience, |
| belt in Karate. So nobody had the dare to disturb the | | | | |
| students. It was a strong support for my brother. On | | | | A number of years have been passed in my |
| the other hand my other brothers were fully | | | | professional field where get experience in accounts, |
| irresponsible and undependable on any work except | | | | finance, budget & auditing, Where achieved a solid |
| their study. So, if I go abroad, my eldest brother's | | | | confidence to keep all accounts record and prepare all |
| private business (teaching students at home) could fall | | | | necessaries papers for annual audit report to the |
| in danger and most of all the family responsibilities will | | | | board of directors meeting, after that improved as the |
| come on his shoulder and he had to tackle alone, | | | | deputy general manager (Accounts, audit, & |
| which was quite impossible for him. Then, he played | | | | budgeting) where learned to maintain the information in |
| this ugly trick on me so that I stay here to continue his | | | | the proper way so those can be use in all condition of |
| business and family's work done. And he can find | | | | the organization, |
| some time for his own study to build up his career. | | | | |
| | | | | Also I spent another years as In charge (Accounts |
| My father & he together promised me that I can | | | | & Audit) one of the largest Group Company in |
| go abroad for study but after complete Masters | | | | Bangladesh, I assisted the Managing Director for |
| Degree. I was bound to do so because of my inability. | | | | providing administrative support, daily schedule |
| | | | | coordination & directly support to Finance Director |
| In 1998 I passed Masters in Management and again I | | | | for Planning, organizing and controlling finances for the |
| approached my higher study in abroad to my family. | | | | organization, Preparing monthly. quarterly and annual |
| My father remain silent here because by these years | | | | financial reports to be submitted management and |
| my eldest brother become 1st officer and through the | | | | Board of Directors, Reporting to funding agencies as |
| private tuition business he started to earn a lot money | | | | per contract requirements, Developing budgets for |
| that he become the main income source of the family. | | | | project proposals and ensuring that funding applications |
| Now my brother directly uses his power of veto and | | | | are submitted and updated for various projects, |
| convinced all the other members. He forgot about the | | | | Reviewing and approving annual budgets submitted by |
| commitment which was given me earlier. I found that | | | | project managers, Managing the allocation of human |
| he has a secret ambition for higher study in abroad, so | | | | services (staffing and recruitment), Work closely with |
| in absence of him I have to stay here for tackling all | | | | internal and external auditors. |
| family matters. He tried to force me to put in any Gov't | | | | |
| job and lead a middle class life. I tried to convince my | | | | Now I confidently work alone and in teams - in both |
| family members but they were so dependable | | | | situations I always complete tasks on time and enjoy |
| (Financial) on him that nobody could support me. It put | | | | assisting others to ensure that their tasks also come in |
| a wall between us and started a cold war. | | | | on time and on budget. |
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| I had no weapon to protect myself from my elder | | | | All This experience installed me the desire to owe and |
| brother's ugly, dirty, & evil thoughts but that time I | | | | manage my own business someday; I have started |
| was a 25 years Youngman, so I was also self-willed, | | | | my consultancy business for the last few months, now |
| my reflection against my brother's all ugly, dirty & | | | | I am providing my business support for newly |
| Jealousy, I came out of my home with a single cloth | | | | established organization as administration development, |
| on. I rent a room although I had no money to keep | | | | accounts format, banking, client & marketing |
| rolling my life. I was jobless totally one (01) year and let | | | | correspondence on behalf of those companies. |
| my life lead by borrowing money form my nearest | | | | |
| friends. I was staying one (01) km far away from our | | | | Meantime I have complete Masters of Business |
| own home but till now I did not contact with a person | | | | Administration, MBA (major in finance & |
| of my family although they are still trying to bring me | | | | marketing) in 2007, I think that I could provided me with |
| back for their necessitate. | | | | the knowledge to apply my business and analytical |
| | | | | skills to different business scenarios. |
| Staying out of home I was informed that my elder | | | | |
| brother went Germany to earn PHD degree on | | | | In the same time I have continued correspondence |
| Economics which he advertised that he got scholarship | | | | with the renewal universities around the globe to get a |
| but it was totally a lie. To build his own career, this time | | | | scholarship for PHD study. Sometimes I feel that I |
| he did not think about the family responsibility but in my | | | | could do anything (!) to fulfill my goal earn a PHD |
| case when my father was able to afford to pay my | | | | degree. |
| educational expenses he blocked that with the same | | | | |
| family cause. In between his study in Germany my | | | | Conclution: I believe that my studies and work |
| parents felt in different disease, heart-disease, high | | | | experiences have brought me confidence and |
| blood pressure, high-per-tension, etc. because my | | | | maturity, preparing myself that if I could get the |
| parents were so dependable on my brother or me | | | | opportunity for studying in PHD.I will prove myself as |
| and both of us were staying far from them. May be | | | | an excellent student, after complete my dream I will |
| my elder brother didn't want me to cross him in | | | | speared my knowledge and vast experiences to the |
| education. Every one will have to stay down under his | | | | right people and the society. |
| commend. Shame on his higher education!! | | | | |