| Maybe you've heard of the power of suggestion, and | | | | head. "You think I'm amazing," "You're addicted to me," |
| the influence one person can have over another. | | | | "You think I'm the most beautiful girl in the world," etc. |
| If you feel like you need more control in your | | | | Get Him in his Sleep |
| relationship and need to get a better grip on your guy's | | | | If he always falls asleep before you, you're way |
| mind, here's a few little pointers: | | | | ahead of the curve. |
| The More You Know, the More Tools You Have | | | | Simply wait until he's in a somewhat-deep sleep (listen |
| If you want to be able to have great control and | | | | for that very heavy breathing pattern), and talk to him |
| power in a guy's life, then you have to know as much | | | | softly the same way to did with the television trick. |
| about that guy and his life as possible. | | | | Mental suggestion has been used during sleep for a |
| Your number one task to start with? LISTEN. ASK | | | | very long time. |
| QUESTIONS. Resist the urge to talk about yourself | | | | Using Those Tools: Becoming Something He Has to |
| and find out as much information as you can. Family | | | | Have |
| background and previous girlfriends are two of the | | | | All that listening and digging into his past you did will pay |
| most important areas to learn about. | | | | off now. |
| He Needs You, he Just Doesn't Know it Yet | | | | Did he not know his mother? If so, then you play the |
| Here's the dirty truth: The feeling of attachment, | | | | maternal nurturing type because deep down that's |
| dependency, and NEEDING someone can be created | | | | what he's craving in his life. Did a parent leave, then a |
| artificially. Who knows? Eventually it may or may not | | | | couple girlfriends later on? If he has abandonment |
| turn into the real thing. | | | | issues, say to him constantly things like "I'm here, I'm not |
| For now, be mindful of any situation, or create a couple | | | | going anywhere," while you lovingly touch him. |
| situations, where he ends up in an urgent predicament. | | | | You need to turn into what he emotionally needs. |
| That's when you come to his aid. You want to think of | | | | Association: Connect the Dots |
| as many ways as possible to build a connection in his | | | | You might have heard of word association? Well |
| brain linking you to safety and comfort. | | | | there's such a thing as person association as well. |
| The T.V. Trick | | | | You need to get a little creative, maybe, but all you |
| Some would call this an amateur hypnosis tactic; it | | | | need to keep in mind is that you are linking yourself to |
| works on some guys but not all. | | | | things that are very positive to him. |
| It's pretty simple: When we're doing something that | | | | An example would be if you know a certain time of |
| occupies our conscious mind (playing a video game, | | | | day when he's always doing something he enjoys. This |
| talking on the phone or watching television), we are | | | | is the time when you send him a lovey tex. Always be |
| focused in and our subconscious mind is said to be left | | | | able to connect yourself over and over with the things |
| wide open, ripe for hacking. | | | | that make him happy and soothe him. |
| If your guy regularly spaces out watching T.V., you can | | | | Reinforcement |
| finally be grateful for it. While he's spaced out in front | | | | These suggestions have a much higher success rate |
| of of a show, just talk to him casually. The goal is not | | | | if you repeat them often. So don't get lazy! Keep |
| a conversation, rather, the goal is to implant ideas in his | | | | reinforcing the things you're plating into his thoughts. |