Practical Positive Thinking 4 - Dealing With Unemployment

A few years after becoming professionally qualified asThe next few days were a mix of worry over the
a management accountant in the UK, I had anfinancial consequences of what I had done, and the
opportunity to move to what seemed a great job. Itexcitement of thinking "I don't have any idea what is
was in a lovely part of the country with somegoing to happen next". As a keen traveller in my
attractive properties, in idyllic villages. All seemedyounger years, I had always loved the idea of not
perfect, and my years of hard work were about toknowing where I would be the next day. But this was
reap just reward.playing with fire; a wife and two children to support, a
However, after I met my future boss for the secondbrand new and very high mortgage.
time, my intuition told me it was not going to work out. ItQuickly, the positive thoughts took over, and I began to
was a powerful bout of negative intuition, whichtell myself I would get an even better job; not just any
happens quite rarely in my life. I felt physically quite sickjob, but one that was better paid than the job I had just
as my stomach told me, in no uncertain terms, that Iresigned from. Despite the severe financial pressure,
should not take the new job, despite the higher salary,my mind was most focused on the positive, although I
excellent benefits, and superior location.do admit that, in the UK winter, my body was reeling a
Against my better judgement, I took the job. I set offbit from the stress.
south from Cambridgeshire, where we lived at theI could not actually see that I would be without a job
time, lacking the excitement and anticipation youfor long, and that was what kept me going. I turned out
normally associate with finding a "better" job. Withinto be right. I did get a better job, and in two quick
only two weeks, I knew my gut instinct had been right. Imoves of employment, had increased my income
knew I had to act quickly, otherwise the followingsignificantly.
weeks and months would be a nightmare. I scribbledWith hindsight, I could so easily have gone a long time
out my resignation letter Friday lunch time, and droveunemployed. Whatever your qualifications, getting a job
over 100 miles home.in the UK at over 35 was not easy. However, the
Home was a house we had not lived in for long, with apositive thoughts won in the end.
new and high mortgage; our second child had only justThat experience, and those recalled in the two
arrived. I had no job and no income any more. As Iprevious articles, are just three major examples of
drove home, my mind was in a whirl, swaying betweenwhere positive thinking has played a major part in my
"Thanks to God" that I am away from there, and alife. Whether or not you can agree that positive thinking
dark shadow of financial disaster hanging over me.could have played a part in those events, will depend
Intermingling with those extremes, though, was a senseon your own belief. However, they are three reasons
of excitement; without a job or income, what waswhy positive thinking is now an every day part of my
around the corner? Where would I be in a month'slife.
time?