| This is how most relations end: "first you find someone | | | | yourself. Again the jobhopper. If you are young there is |
| "new," then you end an existing relation. More ethically | | | | no reason to think too much about the future, but if |
| would be to do it the other way around, but that is | | | | your life is a patchwork of jobs, relations that make no |
| without taking into account one important element... | | | | sense than you should wonder. If you are happy with it. |
| "Should I leave or should I stay," is a question asked by | | | | Emotion is what's keeping people from taking the leap. |
| millions. For example, in a relation when you wonder to | | | | You have a feeling that what you are doing is not |
| continue, to improve or to change. Or at work, to | | | | really what you want, but you don't have a concrete |
| invest in your current job, in relations with people or to | | | | idea of what the real alternative is. Then you have a |
| search for something else. | | | | problem. |
| And what it the recipe? What should you do? | | | | You need to know that your current situation is not the |
| Much depends on who you are, who you want to be | | | | right one. You need some idea of the (near) future and |
| and what you situation is. | | | | than the only thing that is missing is a first step. |
| Who you are: are you a jobhopper than you should | | | | Back to the relations...Why people leave easier after |
| worry too much. Especially when you are still young. | | | | they have got something (a job) or someone (a |
| An international company recently took a measure in | | | | relation) new - in mind - is the about the opportunity. |
| which it demanded people to stay longer at the same | | | | Quitting something without an alternative will make life |
| position. Job rotation was part of the culture, but the | | | | more difficult than required. If you are in a relation and |
| downside was also noticeable; the culture scored low | | | | you suddenly find someone else it is because you |
| on responsibility. | | | | were "open" for it. You had already decided to leave, |
| How responsible are you? | | | | but you were waiting for the right moment. |
| But responsibility on itself is not a factor that should | | | | Should I leave or should I stay ... You probably already |
| keep you bound to one job or relation. | | | | know the answer. |
| What do you want in life, is a question you should ask | | | | |